The Impact of Financial Inequality on Intimacy in Relationships

Money can't buy love, but financial inequality can certainly put it to the test.

In today’s world, where dual-income households are the norm and financial independence is highly valued, disparities in earnings between partners can lead to significant challenges.

This post explores the impact of financial inequality on intimacy in relationships, delving deep into power dynamics, resentment, and even the potential for infidelity.

We’ll examine the latest social science research, pose thought-provoking questions, and offer practical advice for couples navigating these complex issues.

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Stages of a Dying Marriage: recognizing the signs and taking action

Marriage, often heralded as the pinnacle of romantic commitment, can undergo a series of challenges that, if left unchecked, can lead to its decline.

Recognizing the stages of a dying marriage is crucial for both partners to address issues early and take necessary steps to potentially salvage the relationship.

This comprehensive blog post explores these stages in depth, supported by social science research and practical insights.

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Marriage is Dead: 6 forces shaping the decline of a sacred institution

The declaration "marriage is dead" might sound hyperbolic, but numerous studies and cultural shifts suggest that the institution of marriage is indeed under significant threat.

From changing societal norms to economic pressures, the traditional concept of marriage and the nuclear family is evolving rapidly.

This post explores the research behind these changes, what might be supplanting marriage, and the future of the nuclear family in an age characterized by individualism and high costs of raising children.

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How to Get Over a Breakup

Breaking up is hard to do.

Whether you’re the dumper or the dumpee, the end of a relationship can leave you feeling like you’ve been hit by a truck, followed by a parade of elephants, and maybe a rogue rhinoceros for good measure.

But fear not, gentle reader.

I'm here to help you navigate the tumultuous seas of heartache with compassion and some solid advice from thought leaders.

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When Two Narcissists Fall in Love: a match made in mirror heaven

Imagine a world where mirrors are worshipped, selfies are a form of currency, and admiration is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

Now, step into the realm of romance between two narcissists.

Yes, it's a thing, and it's as fascinating as it is complex.

As a couples therapist, I've seen the dizzying highs and tumultuous lows of such relationships. Let's dive into this dazzling dance of love, ego, and self-adoration.

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Is eloping making a comeback?

Eloping, the act of running away to get married, has long been cloaked in an air of romance and rebellion.

For centuries, couples have chosen this path for various reasons, ranging from escaping familial opposition to seeking a more intimate and differentiated ceremony.

As a couples therapist with a keen interest in the social sciences, exploring the history and psychological underpinnings of elopement offers valuable insights into its enduring appeal and evolving role in modern relationships.

Is eloping making a comeback?

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What does it mean to be Boysober?

"Boysober" is not just a trend; it might be a cultural shift.

Originating from the witty brain of Brooklyn-based comedian Hope Woodard, the term refers to a self-imposed hiatus from romantic and sexual relationships.

This break allows folks to detox from the emotional and psychological hangovers caused by toxic dating patterns and to re-center themselves.

Think of it as a romantic reset button, a chance to turn off the notifications from dating apps and tune into the rhythm of your own life.

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Why young men and women are drifting apart

The drift between young men and women is a multifaceted issue, influenced by various social, economic, and cultural factors.

Let’s consider some recent research and the insights of prominent thinkers like Richard Reeves to explore why young men and women are increasingly drifting apart.

By understanding these dynamics, we can better address the challenges and foster healthier relationships between the sexes.

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Narcissism and gift-giving

Gift-giving is often perceived as a selfless act, a way to show love, appreciation, or gratitude.

However, when it comes to narcissists, this seemingly altruistic behavior takes on a whole new meaning.

Let's discuss the fascinating world of narcissism and gift-giving.

We will explore how narcissists use gifts as tools for manipulation, control, and ego inflation.

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