There’s a new star in the family travel universe, and no, it’s not your color-coded itinerary or the Pinterest board titled “Dream Vacation 2026.”

It’s Grandma. Or Grandpa. Or both.

The Wall Street Journal recently spotlighted the rise of skip-gen vacations — also called skip-generation travel — where grandparents whisk grandchildren away while parents stay home.

Yes, you heard that right: family travel without the parents.

There’s a reason sitcoms have been making in-law jokes since Eisenhower was in office: nothing tests “for better or worse” quite like hearing your spouse’s mother ask why you’re still asleep at 8 a.m.

The American family is drifting back toward togetherness—sometimes heartwarming, often claustrophobic.

A Pew Research Center survey found 64 million Americans now live in multigenerational households, the highest rate since the 1940s.

In other words, your living arrangement might look less like a love nest and more like a season of Big Brother, complete with confessionals whispered into your pillow.

And it’s not because everyone suddenly craves Nana’s wisdom on laundry.

There you are. Standing on the porch with your partner, about to ring the bell.

Inside are the people who made you — in every possible sense: your values, your insecurities, your dark sense of humor.

You love them, and you also know they can be… a bit much.

Your partner looks at you like a soldier about to storm the beach. You briefly consider running. Then the door opens.

And just like that, the world’s most important experiment begins: introducing your chosen person to your divinely designated people.

Somewhere in the middle of the second champagne toast, just after Cousin Brian quoted Friends in his speech for no reason, and just before the band started in on “Don’t Stop Believin’,” you realized:

This wedding is not about love.

It’s about keeping the family from combusting long enough to get through a group photo.

There you are, dabbing at your sweat, trying to pretend this isn’t the first time your divorced parents have been in the same room in a decade.

Meanwhile, your sister is floating through the day in a Vera Wang dress, surrounded by florals and metaphors.

Everyone is smiling, including the ghosts.

Your sister was your first enemy and your last text. Your brother knows where the emotional bodies are buried—and still shows up with snacks. Welcome to the age of sibling loyalty, where shared trauma turns into shared strength.

In a world where vertical family ties—parent to child, elder to youth—are fraying under pressure, horizontal bonds are stepping in. Siblings, once relegated to punchlines and rivalries, are becoming emotional anchors in adult life.

This post explores the quiet rise of the sibling pact: mutual loyalty, emotional caretaking, and secret memes forged in childhood chaos and carried into adult resilience.

As extended families scatter and parental support erodes, American siblinghood may be evolving into the final frontier of family solidarity.

Intergenerational trauma isn’t just a metaphor—it’s a biological and psychological reality. Studies show that unresolved trauma can be passed down in three major ways:

Neurobiological Transmission

Trauma changes the stress regulation system of the brain, affecting cortisol levels, amygdala reactivity, and hippocampal function (Yehuda & Bierer, 2009). These altered stress responses can be inherited, predisposing the next generation to heightened anxiety and reactivity.

Epigenetics and Trauma

Research on Holocaust survivors, Rwandan genocide survivors, and children of war veterans has found evidence of epigenetic markers linked to trauma.

These markers influence how stress-related genes are expressed in offspring, even if they never experienced the trauma firsthand (Tyrka et al., 2016).

Welcome to Passive Aggression 101: The fine art of being upset without actually admitting it.

Because Nothing Says “I Love You” Like “Fine. Whatever.”

Some families express love with warm hugs and direct communication.

Other families?

They express love with deep sighs, vague texts, and the occasional aggressively polite, “I just think it’s funny how…”

If you’ve ever…

• Heard “Wow, must be nice to have free time.” when you didn’t call someone back fast enough…

• Been on the receiving end of “I’ll just do it myself, I guess.”…

• Witnessed an aunt dramatically rearrange furniture instead of saying she’s mad at your mom…

Congratulations. You are fluent in passive aggression.

How to Stop Feeling Like the ‘Bad Guy’ for Setting Boundaries

You finally did it.
You set the boundary.
You said no instead of people-pleasing.
You chose your peace over their expectations.

And now?

• You feel like a horrible person.

• You’re questioning whether you were “too harsh.”

• You’re worried you’ve hurt people who “didn’t mean harm.”

If this sounds familiar, I have good news: Feeling guilty for setting boundaries doesn’t mean you did something wrong—it means you’re breaking an old survival pattern.

Boundaries aren’t mean.
Boundaries aren’t selfish.
Boundaries aren’t weapons—they’re the structure that protects your mental health.

So why do so many of us feel like the bad guy when we enforce them?

When couples walk into therapy, they’re usually ready to talk about their relationship—the arguments, the passion, the shared laundry wars.

What often gets ignored, however, is the complex web of outside relationships that subtly shape their dynamics. Friends, family, colleagues, and even that one overly chatty barista can all play a role in the health of a couple’s bond.

As a couples therapist, I’ve seen how these external connections can act as either lifeboats or anchors. Let’s explore the science, the stories, and the strategies for navigating the role of outside relationships in your marriage or partnership.

Franz Kafka’s reflections on friendship offer a timeless lens through which we can examine the fractures and reconnections that define modern American family estrangements.

As Kafka wrestled with the paradoxes of intimacy and isolation, he illuminated truths about the human condition that resonate profoundly in our era of growing disconnection.

In many LGBTQ+ communities, weddings often look less like a Hallmark scene and more like a joyful reunion of chosen family.

It’s not uncommon for ex-partners to play central roles: officiating, giving toasts, or simply sharing in the celebration.

This cultural phenomenon isn’t just a quirky detail—it reflects a deeply rooted set of values about community, connection, and the ability to redefine relationships.

When we think of family dynamics, the "gay uncle" often appears as the fun-loving, wise, and endlessly entertaining relative who brings both humor and heart to family gatherings.

While pop culture and social media have popularized the term, there’s more to the "gay uncle" identity than meets the eye.

From evolutionary psychology to cultural sociology, this phenomenon provides a fascinating glimpse into how LGBTQ+ individuals enrich family systems in unique and impactful ways.