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The Spirit of Intimacy, an Appreciation of Sobonfu Somé

The Spirit of Intimacy: Ancient African Teachings in the Ways of Relationships by Sobonfu Somé is not just a book; it is an invitation to step into a worldview that is profoundly different from the Western paradigm.

In 1999, Sobonfu Somé, a respected spiritual teacher from the Dagara tribe of Burkina Faso, offered her readers a rare and profound insight: a glimpse into the deep spiritual traditions of her people, particularly as they relate to intimacy, relationships, and community.

This book is more than a guide; it’s an ambitious challenge to how we understand and experience connection in all its forms.

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The Love Secret from Norway: should we all try ‘Sex Before Coffee’?

Picture this: you wake up, yawn, stretch, and before your morning coffee, you engage in a little romp.

Welcome to the Icelandic approach to love and dating, affectionately termed "sex before coffee."

As an American couples therapist, I can’t help but chuckle at the idea while also pondering its cultural implications.

What could this mean for more reserved societies? And could it actually work?

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The Eroticism of Outlander…

Outlander, the television phenomenon adapted from Diana Gabaldon's bestselling novels, has captured the hearts and minds of millions worldwide.

At its core lies a rich tapestry of historical drama, romance, and yes, eroticism.

The show's depiction of intimacy and sexuality has spurred fervent discussion among cultural commentators, sex therapists, and audiences alike.

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