If you're reading this, you might have that uncomfortable feeling in your gut that something’s not quite right in your relationship.

Infidelity can feel like a gut-wrenching betrayal, leaving deep emotional scars that can take years to heal. While the psychological effects—such as anxiety, depression, and loss of self-esteem—are well-documented, new research reveals that the pain of being cheated on might go even deeper, extending to chronic health issues.

According to a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, the consequences of infidelity can linger long after the relationship ends, potentially leading to lasting health problems that persist even when folks move on to supportive partnerships.

Welcome to the purgatory of merciless self-examination.

You got caught cheating. Infidelity is an ancient weakness. It’s a sin that takes up 20% of the 10 commandments: one commandment against doing it, and the other commandment against just even thinking about doing it.

You’ll come to experience true remorse, but right now you just regret getting in trouble.

I’ll tell you that you’ve got a lot of arduous work ahead of you. Your old marriage is dead, and, because you both want to heal, you might have a chance at redemption.

Ever wondered why some women stray from their relationships? Spoiler alert: it’s not all about bad boys and revenge.

A recent study published in Evolution and Human Behavior offers some intriguing insights into the complex motivations behind female infidelity.

And as a couples therapist, I can’t resist diving into this fascinating mix of evolutionary psychology and relationship drama.

As a science-based couples therapist with a background in labor studies, I’ve seen how deeply our work lives intersect with our personal lives.

This intersection is particularly evident in the "Work Husband/Work Wife" meme—a concept that highlights the unique and often intimate relationships that form between colleagues.

While these relationships can provide essential support and camaraderie, they also raise important questions about boundaries, emotional fidelity, and the increasingly blurred lines between work and home life.

A new study, recently published in The Journal of Sex Research, sheds light on the surprising connection between different forms of sexism and infidelity among men.

The research reveals that both hostile sexism—blatant negative attitudes towards women—and benevolent sexism—those seemingly well-intentioned but ultimately condescending views—are both strong predictors of cheating.

What's more, many women don't seem to realize that those charming "nice guys" who insist on holding doors and paying for everything might be just as likely to stray as the openly misogynistic types.

When Sarah discovered that her husband, James, had been unfaithful, her world came crashing down.

The trust she had placed in him seemed irreparably shattered, and the future of their marriage hung in the balance.

Yet, against the odds, they both chose to stay and work through the aftermath. This wasn’t just about surviving the crisis; it was about finding resilience—strengthening their bond and rebuilding their relationship into something stronger than before.

I had a few cases in my earlier years when a suspicious spouse hired a private detective. They were quite happy with the outcome, even though the invoice was over 10K.

One of my clients, called it the “cost of clarity.”

Nowadays, inexpensive digital surveillance and monitoring technologies have become pivotal in unveiling cases of infidelity.

The ease of access to personal data through apps and devices means that suspicious partners can now gather evidence of infidelity more readily, and at very low cost.

Here’s how these specific technologies have played out in actual infidelity cases.

In The USA, infidelity remains a taboo yet prevalent issue in modern relationships.

This blog post explores the latest 2024 statistics on infidelity, examining who cheats more, the underlying causes, patterns, methods, and consequences.

By understanding these trends, we can foster more open and compassionate discussions about a topic that affects many couples.

Infidelity is a core issue in science-based couples therapy. What does it look like in 2024?

Infidelity can shatter trust and create profound emotional pain in a marriage.

However, some couples manage to rebuild their relationships stronger than before. This post uses the latest research and expert insights to explore how wives can forgive their husbands' infidelity.

Let's delve into the steps and strategies that can aid in this complex healing process, including the role of attachment styles and preferred outcomes.

Suburban wife swapping often referred to as "swinging," involves married couples exchanging partners for sexual activities.

While often intended to be consensual and recreational, this practice sometimes leads to unexpected and tragic consequences.

This post explores the dynamics of suburban wife swapping, highlighting instances where such activities have resulted in tragic consequences.

As a science-based couples therapist, I find it fascinating to explore how different personality traits and behaviors manifest across various sexual orientations.

A recent study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior has revealed that bisexual women exhibit personality traits and sexual behaviors more similar to heterosexual men than to heterosexual women. Let's explore this intriguing research.