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How cognitive abilities are changing across generations

Recent research reveals a fascinating trend: the cognitive abilities of older generations are improving compared to younger ones.

Evidence from 60 studies suggests that older adults today have better cognitive skills than their grandparents did at the same age.

Meanwhile, younger people's cognitive abilities have shown little improvement over recent decades.

Let's dive into why this is happening, what it means for both the young and the old, and the broader implications of these findings.

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Lesbian & gay couples therapy

Research suggests that same-sex couples are gentler to each other when they fight (Gottman et al. 2003).

Gottman’s research tells us that lesbian couples and gay men use more humor and kindness when bringing up a disagreement, and they’re more positive as they engage in disagreement with one another. Here’s why…

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Can even only moderate levels of exercise improve your personality? Yup.

Regular exercise doesn't just boost your health; it can also transform your personality for the better.

Research shows that moderate exercise can make people more extraverted and agreeable. Let’s jump in!

So, if your partner's a bit grumpy, maybe a jog around the block could help! Let's dive into how these habits are initiated and the benefits they bring.

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The impact of sleep deprivation on relationships and society

How does lack of sleep affect relationships and social connections?

As a couples therapist, it's crucial to recognize how various aspects of health, including sleep, impact relationships.

Research shows that around half of people in developed societies do not get enough sleep. This lack of sleep does more than just affect individual well-being—it significantly impacts relationships and societal interactions.

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What’s money got to do with it? The art of financial harmony in relationships

When it comes to sustaining a happy, long-term romantic relationship, many factors come into play – mutual respect, shared values, open communication, and of course, love and attraction.

But one area that often gets overlooked, despite being an essential component of a couple’s long-term success and mental wellbeing, is financial compatibility.

Money matters can make or break a relationship, especially when partners come from different socioeconomic backgrounds or have vastly different financial habits, goals, and expectations.

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What form of stress ages you the most?

As a couples therapist, I've seen firsthand how stress can permeate every aspect of our lives, affecting not only our relationships but also our physical appearance.

Among the various types of stress, financial stress seems to take the greatest toll on our looks.

A compelling study led by Professor Margie Lachman sheds light on this issue, revealing that financial stress accelerates the aging process more than any other type of stress.

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Why do Americans believe in Willpower Fitness?

Believing that willpower is an infinite resource can unlock greater reserves of self-control.

However, many people fall into the trap of viewing their willpower as limited and needing periodic recharging, making this belief their reality.

These folks believe in Willflower Fitness, which can ebb and flow.

A revealing study compared beliefs about willpower fitness between Europeans and Americans, shedding light on how cultural perspectives influence self-control.

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Love at first sight…finally some real science

A recent study showed that over 33% of singles reported experiencing love at first sight, and men are 10% more prone to the feeling.

However, managing the end of the honeymoon phase is often a challenge.

The French have a phrase…Coup de Foudre…A sudden, unexpected event, especially an emotional one; love at first sight….Here’s the science…

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