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Book Review: “Parenting with Presence” - A Transformative Guide for Conscious Parenting

Parenting with Presence: Practices for Raising Conscious, Confident, Caring Kids by Susan Stiffelman is a comprehensive and transformative guide that delves into the heart of conscious parenting.

In an era where the pressures of modern life can often overwhelm parents, Stiffelman’s approach offers a beacon of hope and practical wisdom.

By weaving together mindfulness, emotional intelligence, and the latest social science research, she provides a roadmap for parents to foster deeper connections with their children while simultaneously engaging in personal growth.

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The Evolution of Language in International Adoption: Embracing Positive Adoption Language

Language is a powerful tool that shapes our perceptions, beliefs, and attitudes. In the context of international adoption, the words and phrases we use profoundly impact how adoption is understood and experienced by all parties involved.

Over the years, the language surrounding adoption has undergone significant changes, reflecting broader societal shifts towards inclusivity, sensitivity, and a deeper understanding of the complexities of adoption.

This post explores the evolution of language in international adoption, with a particular focus on the adoption of Positive Adoption Language (PAL).

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New Mother… New Brain

As a marriage and family therapist with a deep interest in how life transitions impact family dynamics, I find the recent research on motherhood and brain changes particularly fascinating.

The breaking study published in Scientific Reports by Rotondi et al. (2024) adds a compelling layer to our understanding of how the experience of motherhood goes beyond emotional shifts, actually transforming the brain in ways that could protect against age-related decline.

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Why Feeling Appreciated by Your Family is the Real Superpower (And How to Harness It)

In the chaotic world of parenting, we often focus on showing appreciation—whether it’s thanking your spouse for doing the dishes or giving your kids a high five for not turning the living room into a disaster zone.

But have you ever stopped to think about how much being appreciated in return matters?

A new study published in The Journal of Positive Psychology suggests that feeling valued by your family isn’t just a nice bonus—it’s a game changer for your mental health and overall family happiness.

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Is Bed-Sharing Safe? The Surprising Truth About Co-Sleeping and Your Baby's Emotional Development

The debate over bed-sharing with infants is as old as parenting itself. Should you let your baby sleep in your bed, or is it better to keep them in their crib?

Concerns range from safety issues like Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) to fears about long-term emotional and behavioral problems.

But what does the research actually say? Is bed-sharing a nurturing practice, or are you setting your baby up for emotional turmoil?

Let’s explore the science behind bed-sharing and its impact on your child’s development.

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What is a Lawnmower Parent?

Lawnmower parenting, sometimes referred to as "bulldozer parenting," is a relatively recent term in the landscape of modern parenting styles.

It gained popularity around 2018 when an anonymous teacher's viral blog post described parents who go to great lengths to prevent their children from facing any adversity, challenge, or discomfort.

These parents "mow down" any obstacles in their child’s path, ensuring that life is as smooth and easy as possible.

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Digital Parent vs. Analog Parent

Parenting has always been influenced by the cultural and technological context of the time, but today’s generational divide is particularly striking.

The distinction between "Analog Parents" and "Digital Parents" represents more than just an age gap—it reflects a deep-seated difference in values, worldviews, and approaches to raising children.

This generational "personality" clash is shaping individual parenting styles and profoundly redefining family dynamics and intergenerational relationships.

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What is Free-Range Parenting?

Free-range parenting is a term that describes a parenting style emphasizing children's independence, self-reliance, and resilience.

Unlike more controlling parenting styles, free-range parents allow their children to explore the world with minimal supervision, encouraging them to make decisions and learn from their experiences.

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Parenting With Strategic Invisibility

Parenting teens in the digital age feels a lot like navigating an alien landscape—one minute you’re their hero, and the next, you’re the embarrassing adult they barely acknowledge.

This shift can be jarring, but it’s also a normal part of adolescence. Enter "Parenting with Strategic Invisibility," a cultural meme that encapsulates the delicate balance of being present for your teen without smothering their independence.

What is Strategic Invisibility?

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Fluoride, Mental Health, and a Family's Journey

As a family therapist, I often sit across from parents overwhelmed with questions about their children's well-being.

It's not just about their behavior, schooling, or emotional health—sometimes, it's about the unseen factors. These silent influences could shape a child's future in ways we’re only beginning to understand.

One such factor that’s been stirring up much discussion lately is fluoride—the same mineral we've long associated with healthy teeth.

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The Roar of the Meme: A History of Tiger Parenting

The "tiger parent" meme has clawed its way into popular culture, blending both humor and social commentary.

But where did this fierce parenting archetype originate, and how did it evolve into a meme that's both celebrated and critiqued across the internet?

Let’s examine the history of the tiger parent meme, its cultural roots, and how it became a digital phenomenon.

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