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Am I dating a narcissist? quiz
In today's world, everyone wants a quick way to detect if their significant other is secretly a self-absorbed megalomaniac.
This quiz aims to offer a few good questions with genuine insights to help you navigate the tricky terrain of modern dating.
I've crafted each question to shed light on key narcissistic traits, while also poking a little fun at our collective obsession with diagnosing narcissism.
10 Lingering signs of narcissistic abuse
Narcissistic abuse can leave deep scars, often manifesting in subtle behaviors and patterns long after the abusive relationship has ended.
Recognizing these signs can be crucial for healing and moving forward. Here are ten lingering signs of narcissistic abuse that many survivors may experience.
8 questions a narcissist can not answer
When you're dealing with a narcissist, asking certain questions can feel like you're throwing a wrench into the gears of their self-perception machine.
Here are 8 questions that a narcissist simply can't answer honestly.
While this might make for some awkward conversations, it's a fascinating glimpse into the mind of someone who just can't see beyond their own reflection.
Triangulation and Flying Monkeys
Navigating the narcissistic landscape is like stepping into a surreal circus, where the ringmaster isn't just wearing a top hat but wielding a psychological whip of manipulation and control.
Today, we're diving into the curious and confounding realms of "triangulation and flying monkeys," two terms that sound straight out of a whimsical fairy tale but are, unfortunately, all too real in the landscape of narcissistic abuse.
9 Things you do as an adult if you were abused as a child
Childhood abuse leaves profound and lasting scars, affecting various aspects of one's life well into adulthood.
Here are nine behaviors commonly exhibited by folks who endured abuse as children. Understanding these patterns can offer insights into healing and finding a path toward a healthier emotional life.
What is Flying Monkeys Narcissism?
Flying Monkeys are a concept deeply embedded in the dynamics of narcissistic abuse, as elucidated by thought leaders in the field.
These folks, unwittingly or willingly, become the enforcers of the narcissist's agenda, perpetuating the cycle of abuse.
Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a renowned clinical psychologist and expert in narcissism, describes flying monkeys as "the foot soldiers of the narcissist's army," highlighting their role in carrying out the narcissist's manipulative tactics.
Stonewalling? 7 powerful and effective ways to stop
Stonewalling is an often involuntary physiological defensive response to a sense of feeling overwhelmed. It is grounded in a fear of conflict and a desire to mitigate anger and escalation.
Because most stonewallers (85%) are men, it is challenging for their partners to accept that stonewalling is their body’s automatic go-to method of self-soothing.
It’s an evolutionary adaptation that simply doesn’t work in intimate relationships. In many cases, it’s a misbegotten attempt to “calm things down.”
Stonewalling typically starts out with a male partner becoming physiologically overwhelmed and failing to advise their spouse of that fact…
Understanding the dance between obsession and Borderline Personality Disorder
Navigating relationships can often feel like dancing through a minefield, especially when one partner exhibits symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).
I've witnessed firsthand in therapy sessions the intense emotional rollercoaster that partners experience.
One of the most challenging aspects of BPD is the relationship between obsession and the disorder.
The emotional arc of a Borderline female in relationships
Many women with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) are particularly complex.
As a couples therapist, I've observed the emotional highs and lows that characterize these relationships.
This post will explore the emotional journey of a borderline female moving through a relationship, from idealization to the repetitive cycles that often ensue.
We'll examine these 7 key stages and incorporate insights from thought leaders to enrich our understanding.
10 Signs of a Female Malignant, Antisocial Borderline Personality Disorder
Let’s face it. Intimacy is hard work. Navigating the complexities of intimate relationships can be challenging under the best of circumstances.
However, when your partner exhibits traits and behaviors characteristic of a personality disorder, these challenges can escalate into a daily battle for emotional and physical safety.
As a couples therapist, I have encountered some folks ensnared in relationships with partners who, beneath a veneer of charm and intelligence, harbor deeply destructive tendencies.
In this post, we’ll consider the nuanced and often hidden dynamics of such relationships, outlining key warning signs and behaviors that can help you identify when to seek help and protect yourself.
Can talk therapies relieve Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD)?
Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD), including ulcerative colitis and Crohn's disease, affects over three million Americans and 500,000 folks in the UK.
Symptoms like stomach pain, diarrhea, bleeding, anemia, and fatigue not only impact physical health but also significantly affect mental health and quality of life.
A recent review of research suggests that psychosocial interventions can play a crucial role in managing IBD.
7 Toxic texting habits of narcissists: When every ping is a red flag
Texting can be a wonderful way to stay connected, but when you're dealing with a narcissist, your phone can feel more like a ticking time bomb.
Here’s a guide to seven toxic texting habits of narcissists, complete with explanations and a sprinkle of humor to lighten the load.