Welcome to my Blog
Thank you for stopping by. This space is where I share research, reflections, and practical tools drawn from my experience as a marriage and family therapist.
Are you a couple looking for clarity? A professional curious about the science of relationships? Or simply someone interested in how love and resilience work? I’m glad you’ve found your way here. I can help with that.
Each post is written with one goal in mind: to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the hidden dynamics that shape human connection.
Grab a coffee (or a notebook), explore what speaks to you, and take what’s useful back into your life and relationships. And if a post sparks a question, or makes you realize you could use more support, I’d love to hear from you.
Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.
~Daniel
P.S.
Feel free to explore the categories below to find past blog posts on the topics that matter most to you. If you’re curious about attachment, navigating conflict, or strengthening intimacy, these archives are a great way to dive deeper into the research and insights that I’ve been sharing for years.
- Attachment Issues
- Coronavirus
- Couples Therapy
- Extramarital Affairs
- Family Life and Parenting
- How to Fight Fair
- Inlaws and Extended Families
- Intercultural Relationships
- Marriage and Mental Health
- Married Life & Intimate Relationships
- Neurodiverse Couples
- Separation & Divorce
- Signs of Trouble
- Social Media and Relationships
- What Happy Couples Know
Rapid prenatal brain growth linked to Autism Spectrum Disorder
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) encompasses a wide range of symptoms and challenges that affect children differently.
While some children exhibit mild symptoms that improve over time, others face severe, lifelong difficulties, such as nonverbal communication.
Scientists have long been puzzled by this variability.
However, a groundbreaking study from the University of California-San Diego suggests that the biological roots of these different autism subtypes — mild and severe — begin in the womb.
What is auADHD?
auDHD is an abbreviation combining "autism" and "ADHD" (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder), referring to folks who have both of these neurodevelopmental conditions simultaneously.
While autism and ADHD are often seen as separate diagnoses, recent research indicates a significant overlap between the two in terms of symptoms and genetic factors.
High Functioning Autism in Females
High-functioning autism (HFA), often referred to as Asperger's Syndrome, is characterized by challenges in social interaction, communication, and repetitive behaviors.
While autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is more commonly diagnosed in males, recent research has highlighted that high-functioning autism in females presents unique symptoms that often go unrecognized, leading to underdiagnosis and misdiagnosis.
High-Functioning Autism and Defiance
High-functioning autism (HFA), also known as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) Level 1, encompasses folks with average to above-average intelligence but who face significant challenges in social interactions, communication, and behavior.
Defiance in folks with HFA is a complex issue, influenced by a variety of factors.
Let’s ponder the intricacies of high-functioning autism and defiance, exploring research findings and practical strategies for managing these behaviors.
High-Functioning Autism and Tics
High-functioning autism, also known as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), is a neurological developmental disorder characterized by difficulties with social interaction, communication challenges, and repetitive behaviors.
A lesser-explored aspect within high-functioning autism is the occurrence of tics, which can significantly impact the quality of life and daily functioning.
High-Functioning Autism and School Refusal
School refusal is a significant issue that many parents and educators face, especially when it involves children with high-functioning autism.
High-functioning autism, often referred to as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) without intellectual disability, includes folks who are capable of managing daily life independently but still struggle with social interactions, communication, and behavioral flexibility.
Understanding the intricate relationship between high-functioning autism and school refusal is crucial for developing effective strategies to support these children and their families.
Is Montessori Good for ADHD?
As a marriage and family therapist, I often encounter parents grappling with decisions about the best educational environment for their children with ADHD.
One common question that arises is: "Is Montessori good for ADHD?"
This is an important consideration, as the right educational setting can significantly impact a child's development and well-being.
In this blog post, we will explore how the Montessori method can support children with ADHD, examining the specific features of this educational approach and reviewing relevant research.
What is Postural Sway ADHD?
Have you ever found yourself teetering on the edge, both metaphorically and literally?
If so, you might have experienced something known as "postural sway."
But what does it have to do with ADHD?
Let's discover how it might explain why some people seem to be balancing on a tightrope in their daily lives.
What is ad4k ADHD?
ADHD, or Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, is a neurodevelopmental condition marked by inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity.
The term "ad4k ADHD" has recently surfaced in a few online communities, hinting at a more intense manifestation of ADHD symptoms, akin to "upgrading" from standard to high-definition.
Let’s discuss what ad4k ADHD entails, its implications, and how it affects folks and their relationships.
What is Ring of Fire ADHD?
ADHD, or Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, is a well-known condition characterized by inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. Within this spectrum, there is a subtype known as "Ring of Fire ADHD."
This term, coined by Dr. Daniel Amen, describes a specific presentation of ADHD that includes intense symptoms of hyperactivity, aggression, and emotional dysregulation. Understanding Ring of Fire ADHD is essential for effective diagnosis and treatment.
ADHD and Infidelity
Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity.
These symptoms can have far-reaching impacts on various aspects of life, including romantic relationships.
One area of growing concern is the potential link between ADHD and infidelity.
As a science-based couples therapist, it’s essential to explore this connection thoroughly to provide insights and strategies for couples dealing with these challenges.
OCD and Narcissism
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are two distinct mental health conditions, each with unique characteristics and symptoms.
However, research has indicated potential overlaps and interactions between these disorders. Understanding the relationship between OCD and narcissism is crucial for clinicians and folks affected by these conditions.
Let’s explore the similarities, differences, and co-occurrence of OCD and NPD, supported by scientific research.