Welcome to my Blog

Thank you for stopping by. This space is where I share research, reflections, and practical tools drawn from my experience as a marriage and family therapist.

Are you a couple looking for clarity? A professional curious about the science of relationships? Or simply someone interested in how love and resilience work? I’m glad you’ve found your way here. I can help with that.

Each post is written with one goal in mind: to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the hidden dynamics that shape human connection.

Grab a coffee (or a notebook), explore what speaks to you, and take what’s useful back into your life and relationships. And if a post sparks a question, or makes you realize you could use more support, I’d love to hear from you.

Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.
~Daniel

P.S.

Feel free to explore the categories below to find past blog posts on the topics that matter most to you. If you’re curious about attachment, navigating conflict, or strengthening intimacy, these archives are a great way to dive deeper into the research and insights that I’ve been sharing for years.

 

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The Care and Feeding of Gods

In the year 2094, the world had become a place where the line between human and machine was no longer a blur, but a chasm. The multi-exceptional learners—those rare souls blessed with both prodigious intellectual gifts and additional challenges—were at the forefront of this new age.

These multi-exceptional individuals had become the backbone of human advancement, surpassing even the most advanced artificial intelligences.

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What is a Twice-Exceptional Child?

Imagine a child who is both a gifted genius and faces learning challenges.

Yes, these kids are like superheroes with a twist. The term "twice-exceptional" (2e) refers to children who are exceptionally gifted in one or more areas and have a learning disability or other developmental challenge.

Think of it as having a turbocharged brain with a few tricky wiring issues.

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Twice-Exceptional Checklist for Parents

Twice-exceptional (2e) children are a remarkable and intriguing group, embodying a blend of high intellectual abilities and unique learning challenges.

These young folks possess extraordinary talents in areas such as mathematics, science, the arts, or creative thinking, yet they also navigate the complexities of learning disabilities, ADHD, autism spectrum disorder, or other developmental hurdles.

The term "twice-exceptional" highlights this duality, where exceptional gifts coexist with significant challenges. Imagine a superhero with a brilliant mind who occasionally stumbles over daily tasks—this paradoxical combination can make their educational and social experiences both fascinating and frustrating.

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Is my child neurodivergent?

Parenting can feel like a game of whack-a-mole: just when you think you’ve got it all figured out, another challenge pops up.

One question that might have you pondering during those sleepless nights is, “Is my child neurodivergent?”

It runs in families… just sayin’.

As a family therapist interested in science and human behavior, I'm here to help you navigate this complex question.

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Repairing after a bi-sexual Affair in a Neurodiverse, Open Marriage

Clarice Babson (not her real name), a dynamic 27-year-old art director, recently found herself entangled in a complex emotional web after a workplace affair with her co-worker, Davida.

Her husband, Barry, a neurodiverse veterinarian with an anxiety disorder, is grappling with the aftermath of this revelation.

As they navigate the intricacies of their relationship, they are also exploring the possibilities of an open marriage and the unique challenges neurodiversity poses.

This transcript of a repair dialogue sheds light on their journey towards healing, interspersed with my commentary on their discussion on bisexuality, open marriage, and neurodiversity.

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Discovering Marcia: Navigating Autism at 54 with Grace!

Marcia Pignelli, (not her real name) a vibrant 54-year-old woman with a knack for gardening and a passion for classic literature, recently faced a revelation that has reshaped her understanding of herself.

A retired elementary school teacher, Marcia has always been known for her meticulous attention to detail and her unwavering dedication to her students.

Living with her partner, Lisa, in a cozy rural home, Marcia had long attributed her quirks and sensitivities to just being "a bit different."

However, when she received an autism diagnosis, her world turned upside down.

Join us as we eavesdrop into Marcia’s journey, exploring the challenges and triumphs of navigating a late-life autism diagnosis with humor, grace, and newfound insight.

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9 Predictable Challenges in Neurodivergent Relationships

Neurodiverse couples, where one or both partners are on the autism spectrum or have other neurodivergent traits like ADHD, being twice-exceptional, (or just being wicked smart), often face unique, sometimes hilarious challenges that can impact their relationships.

Let’s explore the top 9 issues and sprinkle in some storytelling along the way.

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Working Memory: Neuro Normative and Neurodivergent Minds

Working memory, the brain's temporary storage system, is like a mental sticky note for tasks at hand.

It helps us hold and manipulate information for a short period, enabling us to perform complex cognitive tasks like learning, reasoning, and understanding.

However, working memory is not one-size-fits-all.

Its capacity and efficiency can vary significantly between neurotypical and neurodiverse folks.

Let’s consider some of these differences, and discuss brain hacks and interventions.

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Boosting focus on a budget: How mindfulness and exercise help kids with ADHD

As a marriage and family therapist who happens to do a lot of couples therapy, I'm often on the lookout for inexpensive and effective interventions for common issues like ADHD.

Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is characterized by excessive activity, impulsive behavior, and inattention.

While managing these symptoms can seem daunting, recent research highlights simple yet powerful strategies that can make a difference.

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New treatment for Tourette’s Syndrome

Tourette syndrome, affecting about one percent of the population, is a challenging neurological disorder characterized by involuntary movements and vocalizations, commonly known as tics.

These tics, which often include blinking, coughing, sniffing, and facial movements, typically begin during adolescence.

While approximately 80% of folks see their symptoms improve or disappear as they age, a significant minority continue to struggle with severe and distressing symptoms well into adulthood.

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