Clarice Babson (not her real name), a dynamic 27-year-old art director, recently found herself entangled in a complex emotional web after a workplace affair with her co-worker, Davida.

Her husband, Barry, a neurodiverse veterinarian with an anxiety disorder, is grappling with the aftermath of this revelation.

As they navigate the intricacies of their relationship, they are also exploring the possibilities of an open marriage and the unique challenges neurodiversity poses.

This transcript of a repair dialogue sheds light on their journey towards healing, interspersed with my commentary on their discussion on bisexuality, open marriage, and neurodiversity.

Marcia Pignelli, (not her real name) a vibrant 54-year-old woman with a knack for gardening and a passion for classic literature, recently faced a revelation that has reshaped her understanding of herself.

A retired elementary school teacher, Marcia has always been known for her meticulous attention to detail and her unwavering dedication to her students.

Living with her partner, Lisa, in a cozy rural home, Marcia had long attributed her quirks and sensitivities to just being "a bit different."

However, when she received an autism diagnosis, her world turned upside down.

Join us as we eavesdrop into Marcia’s journey, exploring the challenges and triumphs of navigating a late-life autism diagnosis with humor, grace, and newfound insight.

Neurodiverse couples, where one or both partners are on the autism spectrum or have other neurodivergent traits like ADHD, being twice-exceptional, (or just being wicked smart), often face unique, sometimes hilarious challenges that can impact their relationships.

Let’s explore the top 9 issues and sprinkle in some storytelling along the way.

Working memory, the brain's temporary storage system, is like a mental sticky note for tasks at hand.

It helps us hold and manipulate information for a short period, enabling us to perform complex cognitive tasks like learning, reasoning, and understanding.

However, working memory is not one-size-fits-all.

Its capacity and efficiency can vary significantly between neurotypical and neurodiverse folks.

Let’s consider some of these differences, and discuss brain hacks and interventions.

Recent research highlights a concerning connection between autism, ADHD, and an increased risk of early death. Geez….

A comprehensive review of 27 separate studies indicates that folks with autism or ADHD face double the risk of dying prematurely compared to the general population.

Here is what you need to know…

As a marriage and family therapist who happens to do a lot of couples therapy, I'm often on the lookout for inexpensive and effective interventions for common issues like ADHD.

Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is characterized by excessive activity, impulsive behavior, and inattention.

While managing these symptoms can seem daunting, recent research highlights simple yet powerful strategies that can make a difference.

If you’re an Aspie, you will always be an Aspie.

It’s not a personality disorder or illness. It is a variation in how your brain is wired. And it is, in fact, a core aspect of your identity.

Working with a neurodivergent couple is differentiation in work boots. Let’s jump in…

Tourette syndrome, affecting about one percent of the population, is a challenging neurological disorder characterized by involuntary movements and vocalizations, commonly known as tics.

These tics, which often include blinking, coughing, sniffing, and facial movements, typically begin during adolescence.

While approximately 80% of folks see their symptoms improve or disappear as they age, a significant minority continue to struggle with severe and distressing symptoms well into adulthood.

Could focusing on the context rather than the emotion be a breakthrough in managing recurring negative memories? According to a recent study, this technique holds promise for those plagued by disturbing emotional flashbacks.

The study suggests concentrating on the context instead of rehashing the painful emotions of a negative memory.

For instance, when recalling a funeral, focus on what you wore or who attended rather than dwelling on your feelings.

Neurodevelopmental disorders such as autism spectrum disorder (ASD), intellectual disabilities, communication disorders, and attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) have been linked to gut microbiota disturbances during the first year of a child’s life.

Emerging research reveals that gut microbiome disruption during infancy significantly impacts a child’s future intellectual ability.

The naturally talented hold a special place in people’s minds. Those with superior innate abilities are automatically preferred over hard workers — even when their achievements are similar.

For example, professional musicians prefer a musical performance by someone described as talented over that of a hard worker (Schulz, 1994).

Most people experience intrusive thoughts occasionally, but what distinguishes them in folks with OCD?

For those with OCD, intrusive thoughts are more frequent and provoke a stronger urge to act, a study finds.