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The problem of Passive-Aggressive nice guys…
Passive Aggression is incredibly annoying in intimate relationships.
With effort, a passive-aggressive personality disorder can learn to engage more directly.
But it is a team effort. You both can change how you respond to each other. It will take some work.
Here are some suggestions that are both sensible and specific…
Financial infidelity and financial intimacy
Financial infidelity vs. financial intimacy?
Why is money such as flash point for couples these days?
6 Essential conversations for a stronger marriage after retirement
Many researchers have focused on how to strengthen marriages after retirement, as the notion of retirement has profoundly changed over the last 50 years.
For starters, researchers noticed that couples were living longer. The phenomena of any given marriage experiencing a spouse's retirement was no longer a novelty… Let’s jump in…
Living apart together relationships
There is a new, special lifestyle for older couples who can afford it… it’s called living apart… together. In this post, I’ll be describing the research, but in an upcoming post, I’ll discuss whether or not this lifestyle may help neurodiverse couples as well…
Mary Harrington
Mary Harrington, a British writer and commentator, has provided insightful perspectives on male-female dynamics, particularly within the context of contemporary Western society.
Her ideas often revolve around the intersection of biology, culture, and power dynamics.
While she doesn't have a singular, comprehensive work dedicated solely to this topic, her articles, essays, and interviews offer nuanced insights into her views...
How the Placebo Effect can soothe heartbreak…
Breakups suck, right? But fear not, fellow heartbroken comrades, because science has a sneaky little trick up its sleeve to ease the sting of romantic rejection: the placebo effect.
Yep, you heard that right. Turns out, believing in something… anything, really…. can be the ultimate heartache healer…
How to be a Trad Wife…
In an era where societal norms seem to shift as swiftly as the tide, the concept of the traditional wife has experienced its own ebb and flow.
From the musings of public intellectuals like Esther Perel, the insights of relationship experts like the Gottmans, to the provocative perspectives of Camille Paglia, the role of the traditional wife has been both lauded and lambasted….
Why is she back with a vengeance? Let’s jump in after we take off our shoes!
Therapy from Japan… Naikan Therapy and Morita Therapy
Naikan therapy and Morita therapy are two distinct Japanese therapeutic approaches that offer unique perspectives on self-reflection, mindfulness, and personal growth.
Let’s discuss the principles and methodologies of Naikan therapy, and Morita therapy, and compare and contrast them with Western therapeutic approaches.
We’ll also visit some essential thought leaders along the way…
What are you looking for in a relationship?
So the question is…What are you looking for in a relationship?
In a relationship, what you look for can vary widely depending on individual needs, values, and life circumstances.
However, from a vantage point informed by the latest research in couples therapy, there are several vital elements that humans often desire and benefit from in their relationships.
You might want to compare your thoughts and beliefs to these…
Why do long-distance relationships fail?
Long-distance relationships involve partners who are geographically separated, often by considerable distances.
While technology facilitates communication, physical proximity remains a significant factor in relationship dynamics.
Brad Wilcox … Get Married!
Brad Wilcox, a sociologist and director of the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia, has contributed significantly to the discourse on marriage in contemporary society…
So why is he controversial?
How fear of judgement impedes human intimacy…
Here’s something new we’ve learned about most human beings.
While it’s well known that humans tend to fear feeling judged when confiding in other humans… this fear is exaggerated, according to breaking research.