
Welcome to my Blog
Thank you for stopping by. This space is where I share research, reflections, and practical tools drawn from my experience as a marriage and family therapist.
Are you a couple looking for clarity? A professional curious about the science of relationships? Or simply someone interested in how love and resilience work? I’m glad you’ve found your way here. I can help with that.
Each post is written with one goal in mind: to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the hidden dynamics that shape human connection.
Grab a coffee (or a notebook), explore what speaks to you, and take what’s useful back into your life and relationships. And if a post sparks a question, or makes you realize you could use more support, I’d love to hear from you.
Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.
~Daniel
P.S.
Feel free to explore the categories below to find past blog posts on the topics that matter most to you. If you’re curious about attachment, navigating conflict, or strengthening intimacy, these archives are a great way to dive deeper into the research and insights that I’ve been sharing for years.
- Attachment Issues
- Coronavirus
- Couples Therapy
- Extramarital Affairs
- Family Life and Parenting
- How to Fight Fair
- Inlaws and Extended Families
- Intercultural Relationships
- Marriage and Mental Health
- Married Life & Intimate Relationships
- Neurodiverse Couples
- Separation & Divorce
- Signs of Trouble
- Social Media and Relationships
- What Happy Couples Know
The Neurobiology of Narcissism
The latest research on the neurobiology of narcissism and its implications for therapeutic interventions aimed at improving relationship dynamics is up-and-coming.
It might offer couples therapy a raft of new tools and interventions.
Are you married to a Covert Narcissist?
Navigating a relationship with a covert narcissist can be akin to walking through a minefield blindfolded.
The subtle manipulation, emotional abuse, and constant gaslighting can leave one questioning their reality and sanity.
Can being neurotic reduce your risk of death?
Researchers found that humans who scored highly on one aspect of neuroticism related to worry and vulnerability had a reduced risk of death regardless of how they rated their health….
Is neuroticism protective?
66% of severely depressed humans respond to a new type of brain stimulation protocol…
Transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) is an emerging, approved treatment for treatment-resistant depression, But a new iteration of TMS is showing breathtaking promise!
Why is emotional intimacy in marriage so hard these days? Here are 4 reasons…
Emotional intimacy in marriage is pretty challenging to achieve nowadays.
Here are 4 proclivities that get in the way.
7 Signs you’re a Workaholic…
The emotional, lived experience of Workaholics in their work environments, as well as their emotional reactivity to job stressors, have been poorly investigated by social science researchers…
Is talking to yourself healthy and normal?
Researchers have been studying self-talk for a long time.
Scientists have been fascinated by what humans say to themselves, going back to the Victorian Era.
Why do we undertake talking to ourselves aloud, and what do we hope to accomplish in doing so?
"Every day, in every way, I'm getting better and better…"
“Injunctions to ‘‘think positively’’ are pervasive in North America.
Self-help books, television shows, and loved ones advise thinking positively when one faces a challenge or is unhappy.
Yet research continually indicates that, for certain people, positive self-statements may be not only ineffective, but actually detrimental.” (Wood et al., 2009).
Eating disorders and habit learning circuits of the brain…
Humans with binge eating disorders in this study had lower sensitivity to dopamine, often known as the ‘pleasure chemical’.
This lower sensitivity may result from too much indulgence, which is caused by habit circuitry gone awry.
Why we need the emotion of awe, more than ever…
Awe thoroughly brings us into the present moment, and then expands that moment while installing a profound sense of well-being at the same time.
That’s awesome!
Shinrin-yoku Therapy for Anxiety and Depression…
Forest therapy, also known as forest bathing or shinrin-yoku in Japanese, is a deliberate practice which involves immersing oneself into forest setting, for the directed purpose of improving one’s emotional, physical, and mental well-being.
Rethinking Narcissism…
The obvious fact is this…we need to learn more about the healthy manifestations of narcissism.
That requires us to avert our attention from the toxic, swampy end of the spectrum… which seems to attract our gaze like a car wreck.