
BLOG
- Attachment Issues
- Coronavirus
- Couples Therapy
- Extramarital Affairs
- Family Life and Parenting
- How to Fight Fair
- Inlaws and Extended Families
- Intercultural Relationships
- Marriage and Mental Health
- Married Life & Intimate Relationships
- Neurodiverse Couples
- Separation & Divorce
- Signs of Trouble
- Social Media and Relationships
- What Happy Couples Know
Generation Apathy: How Parental Disengagement Shapes Youth Politics…
A recent German study has uncovered a significant link between parental political disengagement and the apathy their children feel towards politics.
This phenomenon appears to be particularly pronounced in close parent-child relationships. These findings shed light on the growing disinterest in politics observed in democracies worldwide…
Adult Children of Divorce: Understanding Their Silent Suffering…
Adult Children of Divorce suffer too.
There is a robust cultural belief that adult children, once successfully launched, should be indifferent, or at the very worst, non·plussed by their parent’s divorce.
I encounter this belief in couples therapy regularly.
Emerging research explains that nothing could be further from the truth.
3 Essential ideas for raising grateful kids in an entitled world…
Research suggests that parents who let their children take the lead in easy or moderately difficult tasks help them develop self-regulation skills and independence, contributing to their success later in life.
As Stanford University professor Jelena Obradović explains, "Too much direct engagement can come at a cost to kids' abilities to control their own attention, behavior, and emotions."
The Emergence of Infant Consciousness: Insights from Neuroscience…
Neuroscience continues the exploration of infant consciousness… and that exploration continues to lead us to ethically challenging territories.
Until the 1980s, medical practices routinely subjected newborns to surgeries without anesthesia, under the assumption of their lack of awareness.
Recent research challenges the prior, prevailing notion that consciousness only arises after birth or within the first year of life.
A meta-review of studies suggests that some form of consciousness may emerge even before birth, particularly towards the end of the third trimester…
The Generational Gift of Empathy: How to Nurture It in Your Children…
Empathy, the ability to understand and share the feelings of others, isn't just a skill; it's a family legacy.
A groundbreaking 2024 study has discovered that empathic behavior is passed down from mothers to their children …and even to their grandchildren.
Which 3 childhood anxiety behaviors predict a future adult anxiety disorder?
In a groundbreaking study spanning over four decades, researchers discovered specific childhood behaviors that can predict the development of anxiety disorders later in life.
These findings shed light on the importance of early intervention and support for children displaying certain behaviors.
How thinking like a 5-year-old can enhance learning…
Young children possess a cognitive talent that often eludes most adults: the ability to pay attention to everything around them.
While adults learn to focus their attention and block out distractions, there is value in occasionally embracing distractions to notice and learn more…
5 styles of co-parenting after divorce
Several research studies over the last 30 years have uncovered 5 primary styles of co-parenting after divorce.
The first 3 are considered to be more or less functional, all things considered… but too many co-parents struggle with the other two…
Are We Having Fun Yet?
As a marriage and family therapist, it's crucial to explore how human priorities impact personal happiness and family dynamics.
A recent study sheds light on the significant role of fun and autonomy in promoting overall well-being, with implications that resonate deeply within families…
Are we having fun yet?
The Lingering Impact of Childhood Bullying: How It Profoundly Shapes Adult Lives Decades Later
A comprehensive study delving into the enduring effects of childhood bullying reveals startling revelations that echo through the lives of adults even after four decades.
How to raise bad kids…
Research suggests that the quality of parental relationships during childhood can significantly impact later behaviors toward others.
Humans who experience emotionally strained or abusive relationships with their parents tend to exhibit lower levels of kindness, generosity, empathy, and prosocial behavior…
What is the Youngest Child Syndrome?
The Youngest Child Syndrome is a concept that encapsulates the unique experiences and characteristics often attributed to the youngest child in a family.
Understanding this syndrome is pivotal for effectively addressing family dynamics and facilitating healthy relationships, especially in larger families.