Welcome to my Blog
Thank you for stopping by. This space is where I share research, reflections, and practical tools drawn from my experience as a marriage and family therapist.
Are you a couple looking for clarity? A professional curious about the science of relationships? Or simply someone interested in how love and resilience work? I’m glad you’ve found your way here. I can help with that.
Each post is written with one goal in mind: to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the hidden dynamics that shape human connection.
Grab a coffee (or a notebook), explore what speaks to you, and take what’s useful back into your life and relationships. And if a post sparks a question, or makes you realize you could use more support, I’d love to hear from you.
Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.
~Daniel
P.S.
Feel free to explore the categories below to find past blog posts on the topics that matter most to you. If you’re curious about attachment, navigating conflict, or strengthening intimacy, these archives are a great way to dive deeper into the research and insights that I’ve been sharing for years.
- Attachment Issues
- Coronavirus
- Couples Therapy
- Extramarital Affairs
- Family Life and Parenting
- How to Fight Fair
- Inlaws and Extended Families
- Intercultural Relationships
- Marriage and Mental Health
- Married Life & Intimate Relationships
- Neurodiverse Couples
- Separation & Divorce
- Signs of Trouble
- Social Media and Relationships
- What Happy Couples Know
How to have happy children…
A massive social science project in the UK is helping to answer an important question:
How do we grow happy, resilient kids?
Record levels of Depression in American children…explained.. and you ain’t gonna like it…
Researchers have noticed an alarming spike in childhood depression in the USA…
They think they know why…
Why did regretful parents have kiddos in the first place anyway?
How do regretful parents explain their decision to make little creatures?
Our old friend, FOMO…
3 Tell-tale signs of parental burnout…
New research suggests that the Western memes of individualism and perfectionism are fueling a profound sense of burnout for some over-ambitious parents…
Do kiddos make you happier? … soon to be published research suggests …it depends…
What’s the deal with making little creatures?
Do kiddos confer contentment?
Unpublished research says, that depends on where you call home…
A tale of two Joes…
It was summer of 1966. I was at Camp Don Orione in New Bedford Massachusetts.
That’s where I met Joe, a wiry, diminutive Puerto Rican seminary student from the NYC. He once warned me, with tears in his eyes, that “Satan has the world by the tail”
That summer I also met a tall, animated seminary exchange student from Milan. His name was also Joe.. Joe DeAngelo… he would prove the other Joe to be correct…
What do different kinds of love feel like? In the body… as a physical sensation?
Fascinating new research maps how different kinds of love are felt in the body.
I love the fact that this researcher, for the past 15 years, has been making the deep investigation into human love his life’s work…
Nurturing the Spiritual Child: A family therapist's perspective on "The Spiritual Child" by Lisa Miller, Ph.D.
The world we live in may require us to become spiritual beings having a human experience., if we’re gonna make it as a species.
When is the last time you thought about your child’s spiritual development?
The argument for Pronatalism…
We need to make babies. The pronatalists warn that we need a cultural shift which re-establishes the importance of children in moving forward with an ever-advancing civilization…
The argument against Pronatalism…
Our culture loves kiddos.
But if we focus too much on our kids, our intimate relationships suffer.
Has cultural pronatalism met its Kryptonite, however, in cultural narcissism?
The 1 teen trait that bodes well for future relationship satisfaction…
Teens who maintain a successful cohort of abiding friendships in their teen years report mort relationship satisfaction in their 30’s … Why?
The toxic legacy of parental favoritism…
What happens when daddy prefers Steve his first born, over his kid sister Carol ?
Breaking research suggests it’s a lifelong sh*t show…