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Why passion and intimacy aren't enough to prevent infidelity
I often grapple with the complexities of romantic relationships and the factors that influence fidelity.
New research published in the journal Deviant Behavior reveals some surprising insights into infidelity.
This study suggests that individual tendencies, rather than shared passion and intimacy, play a crucial role in the decision to remain faithful.
Infidelity practices around the world
As a couples therapist, I am often spellbound by the intriguing and sometimes amusing world of relationships.
One aspect that never fails to intrigue me is how different cultures handle infidelity.
From covert operations to outright drama, let's take a peek into a few infidelity practices from around the globe.
But let’s explore not just the practices, but also the cultural underpinnings that might lie behind these differences.
Micro-Cheating: understanding and navigating the modern infidelity
In the age of social media and constant digital connectivity, the landscape of romantic relationships has evolved, giving rise to a new form of infidelity known as "micro-cheating."
This term refers to seemingly minor actions that suggest a person is emotionally or physically focused on someone outside their relationship.
While these actions may not constitute outright cheating, they can still damage trust and intimacy between partners.
What is Emotional Infidelity? a science-based exploration
Emotional infidelity is a concept gaining increasing attention both in scientific circles and popular culture.
While sexual infidelity is often straightforward to define and understand, the boundaries of emotional infidelity are more fluid and subjective.
But what exactly does emotional infidelity entail?
Rebuilding trust after infidelity
Infidelity is one of the most damaging events that can affect a relationship.
Rebuilding trust after infidelity is 3 part process that requires time, effort, and understanding from both parties.
Let’s explore research on this topic, noticing cultural differences and focusing on effective strategies for restoring trust.
What counts as cheating?
Cheating can be as perplexing as deciding what to wear on a Sunday.
Is it that forbidden text message, or the kiss under the mistletoe at the office party?
Let's explore evolutionary psychology and some solid social science research.
Signs of a cheating wife: What research and experts say
Detecting signs of a cheating wife can be a challenging and emotional experience. However, insights from recent social research and experts in the field can help you better understand what to look for.
In this post, we will explore the most common signs of infidelity and what modern studies say about them.
10 Questions to ask your unfaithful spouse
Infidelity can shatter the foundation of a relationship, leaving partners grappling with intense emotions and deep-seated questions.
In this post, we explore ten profound questions to ask your unfaithful spouse, drawing from the wisdom of renowned relationship expert Esther Perel.
These questions are designed to help you understand the betrayal and foster healing, growth, and a renewed connection.
Bipolar Disorder and Infidelity: understanding the complex connection
Infidelity is a challenging and often painful issue in any relationship.
When intertwined with bipolar disorder, the dynamics can become even more complex.
Let’s explore the intricate relationship between infidelity and bipolar disorder, reviewing academic research to provide insights to help those affected navigate this difficult terrain.
Infidelity and Forgiveness: navigating the complex terrain of betrayal
Infidelity is one of the most challenging issues a relationship can face.
When a partner strays, the breach of trust can be profound and deeply painful.
However, understanding infidelity and forgiveness can help couples navigate this tumultuous terrain.
Let’s explore the psychological, social, and emotional aspects of infidelity, such as forgiveness, cultural narcissism, acceptance, forbearance, and the concept of inconsolability as described by John Gottman.
PTSD and Infidelity: Understanding the connection and implications
Infidelity is a challenging topic in any relationship, but when coupled with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), the complexities deepen.
PTSD, a mental health condition triggered by experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event, can significantly impact relationships, often leading to emotional and behavioral changes that contribute to infidelity.
Let’s explore the intricate relationship between PTSD and infidelity.
Testosterone injections and infidelity
Testosterone, the primary male sex hormone, is often associated with virility, strength, and overall male vitality.
With the rise of testosterone replacement therapy (TRT), especially in the form of injections, there is increasing interest in understanding its broader impacts.
One area of concern is whether testosterone injections might influence behaviors related to infidelity.
Let’s discuss the research on testosterone injections and infidelity, examine the role of narcissism and body image, and see what we have got.