Welcome to my Blog

Thank you for stopping by. This space is where I share research, reflections, and practical tools drawn from my experience as a marriage and family therapist.

Are you a couple looking for clarity? A professional curious about the science of relationships? Or simply someone interested in how love and resilience work? I’m glad you’ve found your way here. I can help with that.

Each post is written with one goal in mind: to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the hidden dynamics that shape human connection.

Grab a coffee (or a notebook), explore what speaks to you, and take what’s useful back into your life and relationships. And if a post sparks a question, or makes you realize you could use more support, I’d love to hear from you.

Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.
~Daniel

P.S.

Feel free to explore the categories below to find past blog posts on the topics that matter most to you. If you’re curious about attachment, navigating conflict, or strengthening intimacy, these archives are a great way to dive deeper into the research and insights that I’ve been sharing for years.

 

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What is the Miracle Question?

The Miracle Question is a deceptively simple yet powerful technique used in SFT.

It typically goes something like this:

"Suppose tonight, while you are asleep, a miracle happens. When you wake up tomorrow, what will be the first small sign that will make you think the miracle has occurred? What else will you notice?"

This question encourages clients to imagine a future where their problems have been miraculously solved and to identify the small steps they would take toward that goal.

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When does couples therapy fail?

I admire courageous couples who might feel helpless or hopeless but deeply long to find a way to repair and reconnect once more.

If you’ve been in emotional gridlock and you want help, I might be the help you need…

But when will even a good couples therapist throw up their hands?

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Existentialism & Couples Therapy

Existentialism offers a unique perspective on couples therapy, emphasizing themes such as freedom, responsibility, authenticity, and the search for meaning.

Incorporating existentialist ideas into therapy can deepen the couple's understanding of their dynamics and help them navigate challenges more effectively.

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The State of Couples Therapy in 2024…

Couple therapy has become widely recognized and practiced, standing out with its unique, science-based methods tailored for couples…

Studies show that most therapists (regardless of how modest their training might be) now treat couples, indicating its growing popularity.

This trend is expected to continue, with experts predicting couple therapy will experience the most growth of all therapeutic modalities in the coming years…

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What are the top trends in Couples Therapy that no one is talking about?

While everyone's busy dissecting the same old relationship advice like a turkey on Thanksgiving, I’m here to crank things up with the latest, quirkiest, and downright wackjob ideas in relationship and Attachment Science.

So, fasten your seatbelts, folks, because this ride might just make your next therapy session a tad more interesting!

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