
Welcome to my Blog
Thank you for stopping by. This space is where I share research, reflections, and practical tools drawn from my experience as a marriage and family therapist.
Are you a couple looking for clarity? A professional curious about the science of relationships? Or simply someone interested in how love and resilience work? I’m glad you’ve found your way here. I can help with that.
Each post is written with one goal in mind: to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the hidden dynamics that shape human connection.
Grab a coffee (or a notebook), explore what speaks to you, and take what’s useful back into your life and relationships. And if a post sparks a question, or makes you realize you could use more support, I’d love to hear from you.
Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.
~Daniel
P.S.
Feel free to explore the categories below to find past blog posts on the topics that matter most to you. If you’re curious about attachment, navigating conflict, or strengthening intimacy, these archives are a great way to dive deeper into the research and insights that I’ve been sharing for years.
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- How to Fight Fair
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- Neurodiverse Couples
- Separation & Divorce
- Signs of Trouble
- Social Media and Relationships
- What Happy Couples Know
The Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment and Dismissive-Avoidant Relationship...
When partners with Anxious-Preoccupied and Dismissive-Avoidant attachment styles come together in a relationship, a dance of push and pull ensues.
The Anxious-Preoccupied partner's insatiable need for closeness clashes with the Dismissive-Avoidant partner's reluctance to engage emotionally, creating a dynamic fraught with tension and misunderstanding.
10 Signs that you have an Avoidant Attachment Style…
Among the various Attachment Styles identified by researchers, Avoidant Attachment is one of the less discussed yet profoundly impactful styles.
Often misunderstood as mere dismissiveness, Avoidant Attachment entails complex emotional dynamics that influence how humans interact with others.
Let’s explore the 10 signs that may indicate you have Avoidant Attachment…
13 Signs that you have Anxious Attachment…
Anxious Attachment, one of the three main attachment styles identified in Attachment Theory, can significantly impact how humans approach and experience relationships.
If you find yourself constantly grappling with insecurity, fear, and a longing for closeness in your relationships, you might resonate with the signs of Anxious Attachment.
Here are 13 signs…
10 Signs that you have Secure Attachment…
Attachment theory provides valuable insights into how individuals form and maintain connections with others.
Here are 10 Signs of Secure Attachment: Insights from Attachment Science Experts… How Many Do You Have?
Disorganized Attachment and Narcissism…
Disorganized Attachment and Narcissism are two complex psychological constructs that have garnered significant attention in both clinical psychology and attachment science.
While Disorganized Attachment pertains to inconsistent and often chaotic relational patterns stemming from early caregiver experiences, Narcissism involves an inflated sense of self-importance and a lack of empathy…
Anxious Attachment and the Self-Absorbed Partner…
An Anxious Attachment style is characterized by a heightened sensitivity to perceived threats of abandonment or rejection, often leading to clinginess, seeking reassurance, and a fear of being unloved.
On the other hand, narcissism encompasses traits such as grandiosity, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy.
When these two dynamics reliably converge in a relationship, a volatile and potentially toxic dynamic can emerge…
What to do when your Anxious Attachment is triggered…
Are you experiencing the overwhelming grip of Anxious Attachment in your relationships? If so, know that you're not alone.
Anxious Attachment, often rooted in past experiences, can trigger intense emotions and behaviors that strain even the strongest bonds.
As a couples therapist deeply committed to guiding humans through such challenges, I understand the importance of addressing these concerns with empathy and expertise…
Transforming Your Attachment Style: 9 Key Steps from Anxious to Secure
Transforming Your Attachment Style: 9 Key Steps from Anxious to Secure
Are you ready to shift your Attachment Style from Anxious …to Secure? Here are 9 powerful strategies to guide you on your journey…
2 Anxious Attachment Styles Together…
What happens when you put 2 Anxious Attachment Styles together?
The interplay of Attachment Styles can dictate the course of romantic unions.
When two humans with Anxious Attachment styles find themselves entwined in a relationship, it's akin to embarking on a rollercoaster ride through a shared maze of emotions and insecurities…
6 Strategies to Attract an Avoidant Partner…
If you've found yourself drawn to a human who seems perpetually distant, fear not, for you've landed in the right place.
As a seasoned couples therapist with a penchant for depth and insight, I'm here to offer you not just 1, not 2, but 6 strategies to help you navigate the complexities of Avoidant Attachment in romantic relationships….
So, let's jump in and explore how to bridge the gap between longing and independence…
Secure Attachment to parents during childhood correlates with… what exactly?
Secure Attachment to parents during childhood lays the foundation for robust emotional development and interpersonal skills.
But what exactly correlates with Secure Attachment, and what tangible benefits does it bring throughout life?
Let's explore attachment science research to uncover the correlations and benefits of growing up with Secure Attachment.
6 Signs of the Anxious-Avoidant Trap…
The interplay between attachment styles can significantly shape partner dynamics.
Drawing from attachment research and insights from esteemed thought leaders, let’s consider the Anxious-Avoidant trap.
I have witnessed firsthand the complexities and challenges faced by my clients entrenched in this dynamic.
Let’s examine the nuances of emotional intensity and polarity between Anxious and Avoidant partners, we can uncover 6 key signs that indicate you might be entangled in this relational pattern… Let’s jump in!