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Anxious Attachment and the Self-Absorbed Partner…
An Anxious Attachment style is characterized by a heightened sensitivity to perceived threats of abandonment or rejection, often leading to clinginess, seeking reassurance, and a fear of being unloved.
On the other hand, narcissism encompasses traits such as grandiosity, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy.
When these two dynamics reliably converge in a relationship, a volatile and potentially toxic dynamic can emerge…
What to do when your Anxious Attachment is triggered…
Are you experiencing the overwhelming grip of Anxious Attachment in your relationships? If so, know that you're not alone.
Anxious Attachment, often rooted in past experiences, can trigger intense emotions and behaviors that strain even the strongest bonds.
As a couples therapist deeply committed to guiding humans through such challenges, I understand the importance of addressing these concerns with empathy and expertise…
Transforming Your Attachment Style: 9 Key Steps from Anxious to Secure
Transforming Your Attachment Style: 9 Key Steps from Anxious to Secure
Are you ready to shift your Attachment Style from Anxious …to Secure? Here are 9 powerful strategies to guide you on your journey…
2 Anxious Attachment Styles Together…
What happens when you put 2 Anxious Attachment Styles together?
The interplay of Attachment Styles can dictate the course of romantic unions.
When two humans with Anxious Attachment styles find themselves entwined in a relationship, it's akin to embarking on a rollercoaster ride through a shared maze of emotions and insecurities…
6 Strategies to Attract an Avoidant Partner…
If you've found yourself drawn to a human who seems perpetually distant, fear not, for you've landed in the right place.
As a seasoned couples therapist with a penchant for depth and insight, I'm here to offer you not just 1, not 2, but 6 strategies to help you navigate the complexities of Avoidant Attachment in romantic relationships….
So, let's jump in and explore how to bridge the gap between longing and independence…
Secure Attachment to parents during childhood correlates with… what exactly?
Secure Attachment to parents during childhood lays the foundation for robust emotional development and interpersonal skills.
But what exactly correlates with Secure Attachment, and what tangible benefits does it bring throughout life?
Let's explore attachment science research to uncover the correlations and benefits of growing up with Secure Attachment.
6 Signs of the Anxious-Avoidant Trap…
The interplay between attachment styles can significantly shape partner dynamics.
Drawing from attachment research and insights from esteemed thought leaders, let’s consider the Anxious-Avoidant trap.
I have witnessed firsthand the complexities and challenges faced by my clients entrenched in this dynamic.
Let’s examine the nuances of emotional intensity and polarity between Anxious and Avoidant partners, we can uncover 6 key signs that indicate you might be entangled in this relational pattern… Let’s jump in!
How to Soothe Anxious Attachment…
Do you or your partner struggle with anxious attachment?
Understanding and managing this attachment style is essential to ensure healthy and secure relationships. Let’s jump in…
What is Considered the Hallmark of Secure Attachment?
What is Secure Attachment? It’s the treasure trove of human intimacy, which only half of us get to lavish in during infancy….
In Attachment Science, Secure Attachment is critical in fostering healthy relationships.
But what is considered the hallmark of Secure Attachment?
Let’s jump in…
Emotionally-Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT)
EFT has emerged as a potent force in the realm of mental health treatment, particularly for individuals seeking profound emotional healing.
Let’s briefly discuss the core ideas of Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy, exploring its core principles, methodologies, and transformative power for individuals navigating emotional distress.
Anxious Attachment Breakup Phases…
Breakups can be a complex journey, especially for humans with anxious attachment styles…
The phases of a breakup and the intricate dynamics between anxious attachment and other attachment styles can provide profound insights for all of us…
Let’s jump in…
The 20 Best Books about Attachment Styles…
To help you navigate this vast landscape, because I am an ardent bibliophile…I took the liberty of compiling my list of the top 20 books about attachment styles, for your consideration…