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How Many Conflicting Theories of ADHD Are There Anyway?
Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is one of the most complex neurodevelopmental conditions to study, and it shows no signs of yielding simple answers.
From neuroscientists mapping dopamine pathways to sociologists critiquing institutional norms, ADHD has sparked debates across disciplines.
The result?
A mosaic of conflicting theories that reflect the diverse and multifaceted nature of this condition. Let’s take a deeper dive into these theories, bringing in the latest research and exploring the interplay of biology, psychology, and social factors.
Surprising ADHD Research: Greater Life Demands Linked to Reduced Symptoms?
ADHD is often thought of as a persistent, unchanging condition, but new research is challenging that view. A long-term study published in the Journal of Clinical Psychiatry reveals that ADHD symptoms often fluctuate over time, influenced by life circumstances and environmental factors. For many, ADHD is not a static diagnosis but a dynamic condition with periods of remission and recurrence—a finding that offers both hope and a more nuanced understanding of the disorder.
Autism and the Cuteness Effect: A Deeper Dive into Social Perception and Attention
What makes something “cute”?
For most of us, it’s the irresistible features of a baby’s face—big eyes, round cheeks, and a small nose—or the playful antics of a puppy or kitten.
These traits trigger the cuteness effect, a universal response hardwired into human biology to draw attention and evoke caregiving behaviors.
But how do children on the autism spectrum experience this phenomenon?
A recent study published in the Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders explored this question, uncovering nuanced differences in how autistic children engage with cute imagery based on the severity of their symptoms.
Does Marriage Help You Age More Gracefully? For Men, Yes. For Women, It’s a Mixed Bag
Marriage and aging: a duo that’s been studied for decades, but new research reveals the relationship is a bit like your in-laws—complicated.
A study published in International Social Work offers fresh insights, showing that married men are more likely to age gracefully, while for women, the benefits of marriage seem a little more... situational.
For women, marital stability—not just marriage itself—might hold the key to thriving in later years.
Let’s dig into the findings, sprinkle in a little humor (and empathy), and explore what this means for all of us.
Tactile Massage and ADHD: A Holistic Approach to Managing Symptoms
Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) affects approximately 5% of children and adolescents worldwide, presenting challenges in focus, hyperactivity, and impulse control.
Traditional treatments, such as medications and behavioral therapies, can be effective, but they are not without limitations. Families often seek non-pharmacological approaches, either due to side effects or incomplete symptom relief from standard therapies.
A recent study published in Complementary Therapies in Clinical Practice explores the potential of tactile massage as a gentle, non-invasive intervention for adolescents with ADHD, offering promising results in reducing symptoms and improving quality of life.
Let’s discuss these findings, and the broader implications of tactile massage. We will also touch on how community mental health programs might apply research to adopt integrative, patient-centered approaches to ADHD care.
The Influence of Pornography on Young Adults' Sexual Behaviors and Scripts: Key Findings from a Longitudinal Study
A new study published in Psychology of Popular Media provides a detailed look into the role of pornography in shaping sexual scripts and behaviors among university students in Germany.
Conducted over nearly two years, the study found that increased pornography consumption is linked to adopting risky sexual scripts and behaviors, shedding light on the broader impact of adult content in shaping sexual attitudes and practices.
Do Narcissists Have Demons? An Exploration of Psychology, Theology, and Metaphor
The question, "Do narcissists have demons?" invites a complex dialogue bridging psychology, theology, and cultural metaphor.
While psychological frameworks describe narcissism as a diagnosable personality disorder, many religious traditions interpret similar traits—pride, grandiosity, and manipulation—as evidence of spiritual affliction or even demonic influence.
Let’s explore explore the idea from a balanced perspective, offering insights into how psychology and theology can converge and diverge in addressing this provocative question.
"Exes at the Wedding": A Celebration of Queer Relational Fluidity
In many LGBTQ+ communities, weddings often look less like a Hallmark scene and more like a joyful reunion of chosen family.
It’s not uncommon for ex-partners to play central roles: officiating, giving toasts, or simply sharing in the celebration.
This cultural phenomenon isn’t just a quirky detail—it reflects a deeply rooted set of values about community, connection, and the ability to redefine relationships.
Narcissistic Gift-Giving: Why It’s Not About You (and Never Was)
When the holidays roll around and that one friend or family member shows up with a gift that screams “Look at how amazing I am,” you might be dealing with a narcissist—but not just any narcissist.
Recent research published in the Journal of Personality reveals that the motivations behind narcissistic gift-giving are as complicated as the narcissists themselves.
Buckle up, because we’re diving into the wild world of narcissistic admiration, rivalry, and why some people just won’t bother to bring you a plant to your dinner party.
Do Men Spend More on Their Mistresses Than Their Wives? The Surprising Truth About Gift-Giving in Relationships
The image of the unfaithful man splurging on lavish gifts for his mistress while neglecting his wife is a tale as old as time—or at least as old as Hollywood.
Think Love Actually, where the affair partner gets the expensive necklace, leaving the wife with… well, not much.
But what if this stereotype isn’t true?
According to new research published in Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences, men don’t actually spend more on gifts for their affair partners.
In fact, both men and women invest more in their long-term relationships, reserving fewer resources for extramarital or casual connections.
This revelation turns a common trope upside down and offers fascinating insights into how we show love and commitment.
The Role of the Gay Uncle: Beyond Memes to Meaningful Connections
When we think of family dynamics, the "gay uncle" often appears as the fun-loving, wise, and endlessly entertaining relative who brings both humor and heart to family gatherings.
While pop culture and social media have popularized the term, there’s more to the "gay uncle" identity than meets the eye.
From evolutionary psychology to cultural sociology, this phenomenon provides a fascinating glimpse into how LGBTQ+ individuals enrich family systems in unique and impactful ways.
Weird Things Couples Do: More Delightful Oddities (Part 3)
Love, it turns out, is a never-ending parade of peculiarities.
As a couples therapist, I’ve seen it all—from synchronized sneezing contests to debates over imaginary scenarios. Here are 22 more examples of how couples let their quirky flags fly.